Author: Raynari

OraShift creator and founder.

Passion v. Courage

What is passion in me? Is it the undeniable desire to press forward without thought? The distinct knowing that something must be? Alas, a passionate heart will always believe it knows in hope of finding love that always knows! Passion seems to be a force that drives creative types to insanity. We cannot simply remove it from ourselves to go…

The Key

What is the key to happiness? Well it can only be found in a gift shop when your world is collapsing around you and someone kindly remarks he has seen it there.

Avoidance – A Strength?

I have my run-ins with avoidance in the worst ways. Lately, I have been trying to avoid “the right things”! There are times when you should avoid people or things. For example: Consistently very negative people that are not trying to changePassive-Aggressive people or people who consistently attack othersMalicious gossip (in my world, it generally doesn’t include venting but it…

Questioning Vibes

Another very popular saying is to “trust the vibes” you get… Now, for me, I have learned that I cannot do this. As someone who has struggled with trusting people, going with vibes would leave me friendless. I do admire those who can trust their vibes but I cannot. For the people who cannot trust vibes – what do we…

Yet still –

It’s a feeling I doubt will ever fade. The sad truth is, Limerence is unwanted and yet I cannot let go. With all my knowledge. No matter how much you are despised, how you take pains to avoid them – You still feel like searching. It feels like a home that you never had that isn’t yours. It just feels…

Self-Worth is not Simple

Self-worth – the holy grail of wellness gurus, therapists, coaches, and mentors. We teach self-worth when it’s already felt. This causes a significant problem for those who struggle. Why? Those who know their “worth” have a foundation and a basis for it. They know implicitly, without thought. It is felt. When you become infatuated with a person, the process of…

Your Door

Flow with me in this stream of consciousness The threshold beckons to all and yet, none may cross. The life of the tormented soul. Savior of your soul – you – you need to survive. Can you flow through the cycles of memories from your past or are you tied up by them? Do they silence you? Are they seeking…